Ways To Remember

Ways We Remember Everyday:

The memories of a loved one sometimes give of the strength to face the challenges of the day, each and every day.  Look here to find ways to hold onto those memories on a daily or weekly basis.



Annual Remembrance Days Birthdays/Yahrzeits/Holidays:

Certain days in the calendar are harder than others; Birthdays, Yahrzeits (the anniversary of the passing), and Holidays, stand out as potentially painful moments in the year.  Here we’ll provide you with suggestions to harness the emotions of these moments and use them to build your connection and love to the deceased.


During the First Year/Years after Your Child’s Passing:

The first year is often the most painful, and you never know when something will stir a memory, bring back an image, or leave you reeling for support.  This section will give you ideas to become an actively engaged, to help you direct the emotional flow and be an active participant in your remembrance.


For The Friends, Family, & Community of the Bereaved:

If you know someone who is struggling with a loss, whether they are your family, friend, or just a fellow member of your community, there is so much you can do to show support and strength.  This section will provide numerous options for those around the bereaved to make sure they aren’t alone in their pain.


Examples of projects started by families in memory of children:

We have had the unfortunate, but meaningful, opportunity to join with numerous families in their chosen path to recognize the memory, and at times continue the legacy, of a mourned loved one.  Here are a couple ways people have memorialized their wonderful children to honor their memories.


Other Services:

Overview of Services Offered By The In Our Hearts Project

A Guide for the Community During Shiva and Beyond

Personal Help and Financial Assistance for Memorial Projects

Ways to Remember – A Library of Memorial Project Ideas

Presentations To Your Community

Saying Kaddish for a Loved One – We Can Help

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