Rabbi Lamm: Shiva and Mourning

Judaism, with its long history of dealing with the soul of man, its intimate knowledge of man’s achievements and foibles, his grandeur and his weakness, has wisely devised a system of graduated mourning periods. During this time, the mourner may express his or her grief and release, with calculated regularity, the built-up tensions caused by bereavement.
The Jewish religion provides a beautifully structured approach to mourning which is divided into five stages.